I am constantly amazed at the decisions people make. Even when I think it would be hard for someone to make decisions that are worse than those they have already made, somehow they do.
I have a relative who lives in Draper, Utah, and for the last 5 years has lived either there or in Gunnison, Utah. For the last 3 years he has "decided" to keep living there, even though his life is somewhat restricted. We were really hopeful that he would decide to move down to Mapleton, and that decision happened yesterday. He decided to stay in Draper for another year.
I was kind of expecting this to happen, for a few simple reasons, but thought I might be wrong. The decision was made, but not for the reasons I thought. I thought it would be because he didn't complete a program he was supposed to complete. That would have been an issue, but he broke a pretty big rule, so he won't get to move until at least next year. (Maybe a little self-sabotage?)
On the other hand I have another relative who has been making changes in his life. 6 years ago he decided to quit doing drugs, and has stayed clean since then. 3 months ago he decided he wanted to be more involved in his daughter's life and she moved in with him. She started going to seminary and looks better than I've ever seen her look. Also earlier this year he joined AA and has now stayed sober for 101 days.
So while I'm sad at the stupidity of one person's decisions, I'm very happy about the other one.